CHILD COUNSELLING

As an experienced child psychologist in Kochi, Shamshi Mubarak provides child counselling for children and adolescents dealing with emotional, behavioural, social and academic concerns. The process begins with an individual assessment to understand the child’s difficulties, developmental needs and circumstances. Depending on the concern, sessions may involve the child, parents or both. Parents are guided throughout the counselling process, while relevant information from school or other professionals may be considered when it helps in understanding the child’s situation more fully.

What exactly is meant by child/Kid counselling? 

It is actually a safe space for a kid to have a discussion on their confusions, anxieties and anything which they might be struggling with.

Here, Shamshi communicates with the child’s/adolescent’s parents regularly and they are kept informed about their ward’s progress on a day-to-day basis. She also conducts school visits to assess the child’s performance in academic settings during treatment. She is in close contact and in constant touch with other professionals who have participated in the child’s adolescent treatment. Through this children understand their emotions better. Kids consider this as an opportunity for them to open up their concerns who is unbiased. Speaking to a child psychologist away from their known people can take away most of their pressure while talking.

With children, Shamshi’s specific treatment areas include cognitive behavioral interventions. Other treatment methodologies for adolescents and children include token economy programs that are reinforced by the child’s parents and teachers and also game therapy. Many at times she use methods depends on the child’s age and situations gone through. She even use many tools which encourage the child  to express their emotions better which includes storytelling, playing games, painting etc.  Older children prefer talking , however when working with older children and adolescents, in particular, Shamshi uses deeper approaches such as CBT combined with hypnotherapy to help promote change and derive better outcomes. Although different methods used for small and older children, the aim will be the same which is the fulfilment of life and develop resilience. There is no right and wrong to take a counselling, it’s always good to talk to someone and if it is a professional listener who can support you by listening would be better for everyone.

Shamshi Mubarak’s previous experience includes working as a tutor and counsellor with children including working with families where children have special needs. Shamshi has worked extensively with teenagers tutoring them in order to help them improve their organizational skills. She can support your child to be themselves again .For helping a child, she always strengthen parents as they are one who gets panic when the child undergo any kind of struggles. Shamshi frequently uses hands-on activities to help them grasp concepts efficiently and effectively. Moreover, she believes that this activity helps children and adolescents to enhance their cognitive skills and perfect their concepts via the stimulation that is experienced during hands-on methods. She will start with an initial assessment for gathering information to understand the current status of the ward. Usually the sessions are of face to face. Trust is the key factor for every counselling. Shamshi create this trust with every client by creating a strong bond with them.

Understanding the Emotions Behind a Child’s Behaviour

Children often express emotional struggles through changes in behaviour rather than direct communication. Sudden anger, fear, difficulty concentrating, social withdrawal, emotional outbursts, stubborn behaviour, or a noticeable drop in academic interest can sometimes point to deeper emotional concerns that need attention. Our child psychology sessions focus on understanding the reasons behind these behavioural and emotional changes through meaningful interaction suited to the child’s age and personality. Each session is approached with patience and careful observation, helping children become more comfortable expressing their thoughts, emotions, and everyday challenges. Parents are also guided in understanding behavioural patterns and emotional responses more effectively at home and in daily life.

Frequently Asked Questions

What are the signs that a child may need to talk to a psychologist?

Changes such as frequent anger, excessive fear, social withdrawal, difficulty concentrating, sudden academic difficulties, emotional outbursts or persistent changes in behaviour may indicate that a child is struggling with something. A child psychologist can help parents understand these changes in context.

Can a child psychologist help with school related problems?

Yes. Child psychology sessions can address concerns related to academic performance, study habits, concentration, school adjustment and difficulties in the classroom. Understanding what is behind the concern is an important part of deciding how the child can be supported.

Can counselling help a child who gets angry frequently?

Frequent anger can sometimes be linked to difficulties with emotional regulation, communication, frustration or other concerns. Counselling can help the child understand emotions and develop age appropriate ways of expressing and managing them.

How does a psychologist communicate with a child who does not like talking?

Children do not always express their concerns through direct conversation. Depending on their age and personality, a psychologist may use activities such as storytelling, games, drawing or painting to encourage the child to communicate and express emotions more naturally.

Is child psychology suitable for teenagers as well?

Yes. Adolescents can seek psychological support for concerns involving emotions, behaviour, academic pressure, relationships, organisation and other difficulties affecting everyday life. The counselling approach can be adapted to the teenager’s age and circumstances.

Can child counselling help with low concentration and poor study habits?

Psychological sessions can help explore factors that may be contributing to concentration difficulties or changes in study habits. For some children, counselling may also include practical approaches that encourage better organisation and engagement with academic tasks.

Can a psychologist work with parents as part of a child’s counselling?

Yes. Parents can play an important role in helping a child make changes outside the counselling room. Depending on the situation, sessions may include parent guidance so that parents can better understand the child’s behaviour and respond appropriately at home.

What happens if my child’s behaviour is different at home and at school?

Differences between home and school behaviour can provide useful information about the child’s situation. Information from parents, teachers and other relevant professionals may help the psychologist understand where the difficulty occurs and what factors may be contributing to it.

Can child psychology sessions help children with special needs?

Psychological support can be considered for children with special needs when they have emotional, behavioural, social or adjustment related concerns. The approach depends on the child’s individual circumstances and may involve coordination with parents and other professionals involved in the child’s care.

Is there a lady psychologist in Kochi who works with children?

Yes. Parents who prefer a lady psychologist in Kochi for their child’s counselling can consider a professional who has experience working with children and teenagers. The sessions can address emotional, behavioural, academic and social concerns based on the child’s individual situation.

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